How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 03:50
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Why do I feel so lazy every time I get into my room?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
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Losing 20kg is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What I need from you?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
That's it for today.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Procrastinates a lot.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Making more friends is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Does not procrastinate.
Ask yourself:
Saving $10,000 is a goal.